Chapter 273: One Must Be Confident (Part 1)”

Confidence and inferiority are two completely opposite states.

Yet, in the world, there are many more people who feel inferior than those who are confident.

Many people, even when walking on the street, dare not make eye contact with passersby.

They always feel involuntarily inferior.

This may be related to their upbringing, like Li Xiang, who grew up in the countryside.

No matter the reason for feeling inferior, it is a negative emotion that deeply affects one’s life journey.

A person who feels inferior for a long time may gradually become abnormal, or even develop some psychological disorders.

So, from any perspective, inferiority is only harmful and not beneficial to a person. Only by maintaining confidence at all times can one make life more splendid.

Zhao Qingfeng, in his previous life, had also felt inferior.

When he first went abroad, faced with a dazzling world, he felt inferior because he was a poor boy from a small town in China.

But he quickly overcame this emotion.

Because he truly mastered the method of not feeling inferior and persistently utilized it. It was this method that allowed him to remain confident in any situation, no matter how many powerful figures he faced, and even made a name for himself in the internet world.

“Really?”

By the riverside, Li Xiang looked doubtful.

Zhao Qingfeng’s eyes, like the dark night sky, nodded gravely, “Really. I don’t teach just anyone. As long as you can learn and always remember, I guarantee your future will be brighter.”

Li Xiang was eager to know, “Class president, teach me…”

Zhao Qingfeng nodded, “To sum it up in one sentence, if you want to be confident, you need to pretend. Seek benevolence and achieve it, pretend and you shall have it.”

Everyone is born a performer.

The front stage shows the appearance, while the backstage hides the heart.

The word ‘person.’

Its original meaning was a kind of mask.

Just like Marx’s famous saying in the university Marxist books, a person is the sum of all social relations.

Therefore, performance is indispensable. It is because of role-playing that people recognize each other and themselves.

And often in the end.

After people’s concept of their roles solidifies into their ‘second nature,’ it becomes an important part of what is called personality.

In summary.

It means that if a person wants to become a certain kind of person, they must continuously remind themselves what kind of person they are and persistently show the outside world what kind of person they are, then ultimately, they will become that kind of person.

This process does not concern sincerity or pretense.

Because to be human is to adjust and adapt amidst the myriad of experiences and backgrounds.

But one can also take shortcuts, skip experiences, strengthen one’s second nature, to suggest, to emphasize, to believe, and to become.

For example, to become a writer, one must believe they are good at expressing themselves.

To overcome the pain of a breakup, one must believe they are free-spirited and decisive.

To become a top student, one must believe they are strong and smart.

Therefore.

On the path to success, confidence is indispensable.

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